Originally Posted by Samples.32
While the child is still young the woman is presented as a friend of mommy's everything is kept STRICTLY private. As the child gets older (being our child it probably will have already figured it out) we will or will not present the matter to the child depending on whether or not we feel that it is necessary, but if the child asks we will always be honest and will explain to our children that you are to love everyone and find the beauty in both male and female.
Valhalla and Utopia are nice thoughts, too.
Is Mommy's friend a friend of Daddy's, as well?
I hope you don't expect him to share, but you don't have to.
Kids are smarter and wilier than most people think, unless you are a parent.
You seem to have a healthy outlook on relationships, but keep in mind that kids will always surprise you. Expect the unexpected (over used cliché which has no real meaning, because you will always be surprised).
That said, get married first, because that awesome dress won't fit so well if you are 5 mos preggo.
Elvis was nothing more than a sweaty, fat drug addict when I was growing up.
Why have the ladies not chimed in on the whole nipple thing?