Originally Posted by downsouth
Seems to me that if the girl is ," showing off her stuff" she has esteem problems herself and is trying to attract those type of boys.
My dad died when I was 6 and I grew up in a house full of strong Women, my Mother being the Matriarch and Patriarch of the family at the same time. I learned early not to disrespect them as Humans or Woman. I learned better than my sisters did and through the years they fell right into the roles of victims of Men.
What they didnt learn was about their own strength and power. They never were without a Man to find out they could survive just fine! Most of the Women Ive known in my life fall prey to the same thing. CSNY said "Teach Your Children Well", we didnt listen especially when it came to our daughters! Instead Hollyweird, Magazines and we the Parents have filled their heads with BS from the day they realized they were endowed with the things guys want (sex) before they master the things we all need (Life, Liberty and The Pursuit of Happiness), not just a Penis!
Lessons to teach your Daughters-
Get a good education, a great career, find a Man that has done the same, fall in love, make a good home for both of you and decide if you have room in your lives for a child or two! We have tried for a few decades to modify this historicaly proven equation for life but it hasnt worked even slightly. Deviate from the above mentioned plan and life is gonna suck long and hard most likely!
If you show it, they will look, and they will come and come again. If you give it away for free, nobody will pay much for it later. If you value your body over your mind, your upside down, stand up and shake the crap out of your ears! No man can ruin your life unless you let him. Its never a mistake when you get pregnant having consensual sex, that was exactly what sex was created for, to make babies. The only ways to get prego are sex, clinical implantation or the second coming of Jesus so if you got Prego early in life, its most likely because you had sex early in life, thats a bad choice! Speaking of choice, Try hard to be Pro-choice without being Pro-Infanticide, Pro-actively Protect your body from implantation of a baby human and then you wont have to live with or without your "little mistake" ruining the rest of your life or ending the life of your babies!
These are the harsh realities of being a woman today and they arent much different than bygone era's. The same thing needs to be taught to men also but they may have a Pro-choice plan of they own, to chose to screw your life up, leave you broke and desperate and your stuck with the whole nine yards the rest of your life even though it came from 4 minutes of fun with a punk that wont even remember your name!