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Old 04-21-2012, 04:44 AM   #10041
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lol, I know. I know just the one too...
There's a real cutie at work that's been harassing me. I guess its time to move on.
Whoa, there, Trip. Give yourself some time to heal. Spend some time getting reacquainted with yourself. Concentrate on making your son feel secure in a hectic time in his life. I never thought it was a good idea to go right from one relationship to another. Confuses the children and isn't really therapeutic in the long run. But that's just me. You do what you want. When my husband left I took some time to heal and figure things out. I'll admit, I saw a therapist for a while to sort things out. You don't want to just push things on the back burner by getting involved immediately with someone else. You need to deal with and reconcile with yourself. You're going to have to sooner or later. Get yourself on some solid footing first. Maybe guys look at things differently, I don't know. In my opinion, you aren't doing yourself or the "real cutie" any favor by jumping into the next relationship without emotionally finalizing the last one.

Sorry. I don't mean to lecture and I certainly can only speak for myself. We are all adults and will do what we think is best for each of us.
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lol, I know. I know just the one too...
There's a real cutie at work that's been harassing me. I guess its time to move on.
I like you. I really just wish I could give you a big hug right now... Is that what you consider harassment?
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I like you. I really just wish I could give you a big hug right now... Is that what you consider harassment?
Ma'am, I would totally forget my soon to be ex, the cutie at work, and even the random girl that asked for my number at a stoplight...

For a single hug from you!
Psst...call me...
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Whoa, there, Trip. Give yourself some time to heal. Spend some time getting reacquainted with yourself. Concentrate on making your son feel secure in a hectic time in his life. I never thought it was a good idea to go right from one relationship to another. Confuses the children and isn't really therapeutic in the long run. But that's just me. You do what you want. When my husband left I took some time to heal and figure things out. I'll admit, I saw a therapist for a while to sort things out. You don't want to just push things on the back burner by getting involved immediately with someone else. You need to deal with and reconcile with yourself. You're going to have to sooner or later. Get yourself on some solid footing first. Maybe guys look at things differently, I don't know. In my opinion, you aren't doing yourself or the "real cutie" any favor by jumping into the next relationship without emotionally finalizing the last one.

Sorry. I don't mean to lecture and I certainly can only speak for myself. We are all adults and will do what we think is best for each of us.
Ma'am, as usual, your quite right. I do really need to make sure I have him and myself taken care of. I'm well on the way to that. Got money in the bank, a good job, and a reliable (If ugly and kind of crappy) ride.
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Ma'am, I would totally forget my soon to be ex, the cutie at work, and even the random girl that asked for my number at a stoplight...

For a single hug from you!
Psst...call me...
Well isn't that cute

Trip, sorry that you have to go thru all that BS right now. Hang in there...things will get better.
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Out goes the bait...........reeling 'em in.

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Ma'am, as usual, your quite right. I do really need to make sure I have him and myself taken care of. I'm well on the way to that. Got money in the bank, a good job, and a reliable (If ugly and kind of crappy) ride.
Just a suggestion to set you right for the future. I'm just telling you how I set myself straight. You do whatever you think is best for you. "Rebounds" rarely do much more than cause another heartache.

I'm off to bed for the night.
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Just a suggestion to set you right for the future. I'm just telling you how I set myself straight. You do whatever you think is best for you. "Rebounds" rarely do much more than cause another heartache.

I'm off to bed for the night.
As usual winds has set us all right again w her wisdom and experience......thanks winds for making us guys think w our heads and not our other parts.

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Too bad you dont live closer Trip.. Id let you have a bit of quality time with my "Mistress"... She always cheers me up...

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Wait... Which one of us was that directed at?
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