[rurak]

Why is it so hard sometimes. We have been married 5 and together 10 and it seems like its getting harder. Any advice is greatly appreciated

[fmj]

its cheaper to keep her?

[rurak]

It always is I guess. Have a 4 year old as well.

[towboater]

Let the small things go. They ain't worth fighting over.

[towboater]

Have more sex.

[rurak]

Haha it's not like I'm not trying to. She says she feels like I don't put our daughter and her first.......

[Rarity]

You two should definitely seek counseling together. Talk about doing that with your spouse, and tell her you want to fix whatever it is that is tearing you two apart.

[kytowboater]

Originally Posted by rurak

Haha it's not like I'm not trying to. She says she feels like I don't put our daughter and her first.......

Say bye to technology and guns for a while

[rurak]

Yeah I know. It sounds so easy to do but it's hard.

[josan89]

It always and it is going to get harder. But everything is about the most simple and basic thing. How much do you really love your spouse and how much are you willing to forgive and forget to stay with your spouse.