Sorry for not replying sooner. Someone on one of the games i play was helping me out through this wierd program that allows someone to "assume control" of your pc and do stuff on it.... he couldnt figure it out and I just now (4 hours later ) got it working correctly. I did all of the stuff tango suggested and it didnt work. My gpu wanted an old version of catalyst control center (ATI's program for adjusting your gpu) so i finally just forced it to work with the new version for the new high end gpu's... Now i can adjust the scaling and such.
For what its worth, tango was correct, just the options i needed were not available
Thx for the help