Originally Posted by rurak
Just slow it down and breathe. Kids are great but require an enormous amount of time, energy, and patience. Try and be civil with the mother always. My parents divorced and arent civil and i cant tell you how hard that is/was on me.
I'm very lucky to get along well and still be friends with the mom....and lucky that my girlfriend is willing to stick with me through it. Its not an ideal situation for any of us but I think we can make it work. I think the hardest part will be that my friend lives almost 2 hours away.