Well, we'll presume you're there, on the beach, drinking some Mai Tai's!!!
My wife has the same issue. And I fly almost every week for years and rarely have any issues.
Funny story - we were flying somewhere on vacation. She's in the window behind the wing. I'm monkey in the middle. Guy sitting next to me in the aisle. She's had several cocktails. Coming in for the landing. I'm reading. She's white-knuckling the armrest. Wheels hit, engines scream, reverse thrusters deploy (like this).
Suddenly I have claws in my arm! The guy next to me must have heard the silent scream. Blood starting to run down my arm. She thought the damn engine was falling apart. Between the noise, and the engine 'falling apart' more quickly than the video, she thought she bought the farm. Guy next to me is laughing hysterically. I'm trying to pry her fingers from my arm. She was pale and speechless until we got into the terminal and then broke down on the ground a sobbed. AND she blamed me for not telling her it was going to happen. I don't pay attention to what type of plane I'm on. Does it have a pilot, wings and landing gear? Great! Let's get out of here.
Hope you have a great time!
I'm not dumb. I just have a command of thoroughly useless information.
- Bill Watterson, "Calvin", It's a Magical World