I support civil rights for gay people because I support civil rights for everybody. I don't care who's gay or not. I don't think it should matter to anybody except those romantically involved.
That said, I do care about a non-political military. Service members shouldn't be wearing their uniforms at political events, any political events; gay pride parades, conservative conventions, whatever.
"Sometimes I pretend to be normal, but it's boring and I go back to being me."
"You might as well be yourself, people wont like you anyway."