Originally Posted by clr8ter
Well, half the time we're looking, is because of the way they dressed themselves. WE didn't dress them…...
Thread drift but what the heck. When we stop looking and they stop yelling because we did, then were all in trouble! They are doing what they can to attract the partner they want to attract, thats timeless and ageless. If you spoon honey onto the sidewalk, there is no end to the bees that will gather!
Yes, of course they know their wooohoo is hanging out, they checked that out themselves when they put the handkerchief on and called it a skirt! If you show it, I will look, might even gawk!
I am a man, I have certain biological and physiological characteristics engrained into my brain that wont allow me not to look!
The illusion of beauty can have a violent and fearful side also. Our eyes lie, there are some hot TG's out there but until you know they are transgendered, they are just hot looking Woman to the Manly man! Our reactions vary, some get very angry and impulsively reactive. I just chuckle, others feel betrayed, they are but its their eyes not the TG's presentation.
To drag it back to the thread OP, it would suck if we were all truly the same! Hetero Bed Hoppers dont do us any favors as hetero's, Sexuality comes natural, Monogamy does not but its what makes us Human and successful. There are things a man teaches his son and a woman teaches her daughter that will never be as effectual if taught universally. Add to that, we literally cannot expect humanity to continue to exist if we dont continue to recognize the positives of 2 Genders under one god, Indivisible by any man or WOman.
There are relatively few exceptions to the 2 distinct gender rule! Those exceptions are tenuous, fraught with peril and few of those seeking them would tell you their choices made living in this world easier even if personally they felt they were living a lie before they jumped gender's! Even they dont do that for the exact same reasons, talk about diverse. Just cause a Man dresses like a Woman doesnt mean they want a man to sleep with them and A woman dressing like a man doesnt always seek another woman. The diversity of "other than Heterosexual" is mind-boggling.
100,000 years of precedence setting by a billion couples cannot be erased in 50 years by a few creative Psychologists using us as lab rats! By the time we find out they were wrong, it will be generations too late to fix!!! Not a rant against "others", just a reality check for all of us. Experimenting with our futures is a choice for all of us, our childrens futures only have one chance at being one they can live with. There are certain hallmarks of achievement that have really never changed in all of history. Thats not choice, thats natural selection in action. Were deficient if we dont try to teach our children to emulate the pathways that work and try to dissuade them from the ones that have not proven to be viable over the long haul.
V, You know I love you Baby but I doubt either you or I would pray to pass your challenges and pains on to your kids even if your insights are priceless. I cant even imagine the trials and tribulations but Im sure you wouldnt wish most of them on your NME, well maybe a couple of them